Obituary/Unleashed/Carnifex - Tuesday @ Masq.

[AmoebicDysentery]

I was hoping she would post in this thread...and then Blarg would chime in and a fun time would be had by all spectators...but I guess not.

I suppose I can't blame her for ganking some brewskies when Coors Lites are $4.50, however she should have taken Carnifex's beer.

[Blarg!]

I was hoping she would post in this thread...and then Blarg would chime in and a fun time would be had by all spectators...but I guess not.

I suppose I can't blame her for ganking some brewskies when Coors Lites are $4.50, however she should have taken Carnifex's beer.

If only.
I think she left ages ago.

[Metalfreak]

I was hoping she would post in this thread...and then Blarg would chime in and a fun time would be had by all spectators...but I guess not.

I suppose I can't blame her for ganking some brewskies when Coors Lites are $4.50, however she should have taken Carnifex's beer.

If only.
I think she left ages ago.

yeah I think she did too.

[The_Sideburns]

I'm sure I met most you before.. I dunno if I have or not. I didn't see an official introduction thread, but my name is Nick.. guy with the sideburns I recognize several of you.

Good to see we have dedicated true metalheads in this desolate state of ours! I also go to GA State btw..

[TheKshatriya]

Boo hoo they can get as much beer as they want, but they did really well. But Obituary I think is my favorite metal band right now so I was the most excited to see them. I wish they were playing closer so I could have seen them again. The only thing I wanted to hear and didnt was Redneck Stomp.

[necroodin]

FYI, their(Obituary) bassist just joined the real Gorogoroth with INFERNUS, TORMENTOR and Tomas Asklund of Dissection.

[Metalfreak]

FYI, their(Obituary) bassist just joined the real Gorogoroth with INFERNUS, TORMENTOR and Tomas Asklund of Dissection.

 :lol: really? this should be interesting...

[KunikoS Rayne]

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[Blarg!]

I wasn't gonig to reply to this.........but in all modesty...yeah. I was being a stupid drunken bitch that night.........and for the past few times I've gotten drunk I've gotten out of control.

I started to develop a drinking problem as of late............and that night, plus a few nights before/after that night...............kinda slapped me in the face and said "knock it the fuck off"

From pissing off my boyfriend's religious family to not recalling the events of up to 3 nights in a row is not a good sign.

So yeah........

Public embarassment = wake up call.

"it's times like these that make you think...Maybe..there's hope...maybe.......there's a way"

"I have a dream"

"I...I just don't know what has gotten into you lately...you...you're just not yourself"

And so on.

[KunikoS Rayne]

I wasn't gonig to reply to this.........but in all modesty...yeah. I was being a stupid drunken bitch that night.........and for the past few times I've gotten drunk I've gotten out of control.

I started to develop a drinking problem as of late............and that night, plus a few nights before/after that night...............kinda slapped me in the face and said "knock it the fuck off"

From pissing off my boyfriend's religious family to not recalling the events of up to 3 nights in a row is not a good sign.

So yeah........

Public embarassment = wake up call.

"it's times like these that make you think...Maybe..there's hope...maybe.......there's a way"

"I have a dream"

"I...I just don't know what has gotten into you lately...you...you're just not yourself"

And so on.

LOL sure.......something like that.

[kfoll]

I wasn't gonig to reply to this.........but in all modesty...yeah. I was being a stupid drunken bitch that night.........and for the past few times I've gotten drunk I've gotten out of control.

I started to develop a drinking problem as of late............and that night, plus a few nights before/after that night...............kinda slapped me in the face and said "knock it the fuck off"

From pissing off my boyfriend's religious family to not recalling the events of up to 3 nights in a row is not a good sign.

So yeah........

Public embarassment = wake up call.

Do it now, before anything worse happens. Get help if you have to. Embarrassment could be the least of your problems otherwise. But if it serves as a motivator, then it is a good thing.

Take it from me, the poster child for not drinking. I haven't had but one or two beers in the last twelve months, and that was only to taste some beer a friend of mine is brewing in his home (which was awesome btw). Other than that I haven't drank at all and I don't plan to start again. I don't say that's true for everybody, but for those who can't control it, best never to take a drink again. I don't miss it, and now when I think back on how I acted while drunk, I feel sick. Not to mention the $$$$$ I shelled out on not only the alcohol itself but on the legal problems I had (DUI). I'll never get anything back of what I lost, least of all the trust of those I alienated, which is a far worse blow to me than the money, trust me.

The good news is, it's not as hard as it seems. You just have to tell yourself, none of this is worth a few hours of so-called fun, and I do mean so-called, because how is something fun if you can't even remember it.

[KunikoS Rayne]

I wasn't gonig to reply to this.........but in all modesty...yeah. I was being a stupid drunken bitch that night.........and for the past few times I've gotten drunk I've gotten out of control.

I started to develop a drinking problem as of late............and that night, plus a few nights before/after that night...............kinda slapped me in the face and said "knock it the fuck off"

From pissing off my boyfriend's religious family to not recalling the events of up to 3 nights in a row is not a good sign.

So yeah........

Public embarassment = wake up call.

Do it now, before anything worse happens. Get help if you have to. Embarrassment could be the least of your problems otherwise. But if it serves as a motivator, then it is a good thing.

Take it from me, the poster child for not drinking. I haven't had but one or two beers in the last twelve months, and that was only to taste some beer a friend of mine is brewing in his home (which was awesome btw). Other than that I haven't drank at all and I don't plan to start again. I don't say that's true for everybody, but for those who can't control it, best never to take a drink again. I don't miss it, and now when I think back on how I acted while drunk, I feel sick. Not to mention the $$$$$ I shelled out on not only the alcohol itself but on the legal problems I had (DUI). I'll never get anything back of what I lost, least of all the trust of those I alienated, which is a far worse blow to me than the money, trust me.

The good news is, it's not as hard as it seems. You just have to tell yourself, none of this is worth a few hours of so-called fun, and I do mean so-called, because how is something fun if you can't even remember it.

You are right......thanks.

[Knucklehead]

I started to develop a drinking problem as of late............and that night, plus a few nights before/after that night...............kinda slapped me in the face and said "knock it the fuck off"

Only you know whether you have a problem. but, if you think you do, you should get your arms around it right now. You're young and you can avoid wasting years of your life.

We've all done stupid shit while drunk, stoned, whatever. A lot of people follow that path that I did. Drink like a fiend in their teens and 20's and it begins to taper in the late 20's or 30's, without a real effect on social relations or their ability to function. The real question for you is whether problematic behavior is a pattern or not. Some people can party and have a normal good time, but every third or fourth or fifth time, something happens that is embarassing/problematic/involves the criminal justice system. That's a problem. It is a great misconception that the only people that have substance abuse issues are those that need to drink to stop the D.T.'s or are living on the street.

In all honesty, it does sound like an issue worth exploring more. This touches home for me -- my 38 year-old brother-in-law may finally be waking up. He has 20+ arrests, his license is probably suspended until 2030, and he regularly woke up in his own piss. Partying stopped being fun for him ages ago, but he is still drawn to weed and alcohol and coke. (Oh yeah, did I mention that he died and was resuscitated in Jamaica?) Obviously, everyone walks their own path, but you can potentially avoid a lot of familial stress down the road, and a lot of guilt, if you address it now.

Again, only you are in a position to assess whether there is a problem. I'm just sayin'.

[KunikoS Rayne]

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[kfoll]

You are right......thanks.

I gotta be honest too, one of the main motivations for not drinking now is that since I stopped I have lost about 50 pounds and I have hardly dieted at all, and I'm more motivated to keep to a regular exercise program. A few of you gave me some really nice compliments the other night. Made my day! THAT is what makes it worthwhile! :D:D